When you want to make big changes we must choose to change how we view things and what you view important.
We so often view the external appearance as more important because we get an immediate reaction or response. This response will only
Be emotional. Either from yourself or others. You will feel proud and pleased for disappointed. Others will agree or disagree.
Regardless of those none of those require real work, real change and aren’t long last.
The real work is internal. It will require us to work hard and being better and not looking. better. Being healthy and not just the look of healthy. Having healthy relationships and not just the look.
The look and appearance should no longer be enough we should to the internal changes that will Last long and grow us.
When we rely on simple quick external changes we risk greater damage by not actually working to healing.
What we do external will determine what work we do internally.