There has been many of times in the past and still now I withhold forgiveness from others. This happens for me on a few fronts. For starters, I still don’t truly understand forgiveness which really means, I could understand God more. It also means I allow my emotions to take the lead when pain is inflicted upon me. Yes, forgiveness is a process and there is no range or date for each level, because healing will be needed, but we need to insure we are making movements forward and know forgiveness can free us or limit us, whatever the case, it only impacts us and our walk with God.
Then Peter approached him and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? As many as seven times?" 22. " Itell you, not as many as seven," Jesus replied, "but seventy times seven".